Do you feel like your relationship is not as spontaneous or exciting as it once was? When you start to get this feeling, it may be time to find out what the problem is and what you can do about it.
What you must do is find out how to bring some life back into your relationship so it does not end in a break up.
Do you think it’s impossible to bring back the fun and excitement the two of you felt when you first met?
It is not impossible, in fact you could bring your relationship back even better than before. If you know what it is that made your husband/wife fall in love with you in the first place, then you would know what it takes to make that person fall in love with you over and over. Your task is to find what that something is between you and your partner.
How is it you find out the answer? It would be best not to directly ask why your partner loves you. This is too general of a question and you may get a vague answer. Most people would find it difficult to explain why they love someone.
The reason someone falls in love with somebody is because of the way that person makes them feel about themselves. So, one way you can find out what made your partner fall in love with you, is ask them what it was about you that made them feel good.
This is a direct method and much better than asking the why they love you. They may tell you that they felt good because you generally make them feel good about themselves, make them laugh or any number of reasons. In any case, whatever it was that made them feel happy about themselves is something you need to work on now.
You now have the key to unlock your partners happiness whenever you sense things are not good. If those same feelings are the things that made them fall in love with you in the beginning, you can unlock those feelings over and over again as you see fit.
So now you can ask your partner what it was in the beginning that you did to make them feel good, and put your newfound knowledge to work. You do not have to worry about making them angry at you or upsetting them in any way because what you’re doing is bringing out the good feelings in them.